And, of course, doing so is also a Submissive's ultimate pleasure.”Ī safeword, which Wilde noted while discussing Dominance and Submission is “a word, phrase, or signal which you both agree means ‘stop.’” She continues, “Make sure you agree on a safeword–this is a good starting point for all BDSM activity. A personal favorite is 'Gandalf!'' Master/Slave A safeword should be easy to remember, easy to say, and should be a word you’d never usually use in sex. “Unlike dominant and submissive structures found in BDSM in which love is often the core value, service and obedience are often the core values in master/slave structures.” Animal Play “In BDSM, master/slave, m/s or sexual slavery is a relationship in which one individual serves another in an authority-exchange structured relationship,” says Wilde. “Animal play is a special type of role play where one or more participants take on the role of an animal. Animal play is commonly seen in BDSM contexts,” explains Wilde.
Animal play is sometimes called animal role play or pet play.” Contract “Typically the submissive ‘animal’ partner is humiliated or dominated, but sometimes they will take on the more dominant role.